I won't go into how much he spent, but I will tell you it was about four times what the
My predicament became: How was I going to distract Abby for the amount of time needed to get that
Abby was thrilled to be my sous chef and waited patiently until her stirring skills were required. We really had a fun time, and as the pan of cupcakes filled up we realized we even had enough for a small cake. I wasn't worried about how they would come out, the point was to distract her, and that they did. By the time we were all finished Jason had the pool in tip-top shape and ready for its swimmer.
Abby had a great time swimming, but after about an hour I'd had enough of the heat, so I set about trying to get her in the house. This is always the tricky part. Usually she is yelling for all to hear, "Five more minutes!" and "No! Don't wanna go in the house!" With neighbors out grilling I knew this could turn ugly pretty quickly - that's when, once again, the cupcakes came to the rescue. They needed decorating after all, and with a happy wave to her pool we were off to slap some frosting and sprinkles on those cute little guys. They'd actually turned out surprisingly well, they weren't the typical airy cupcakes from the box, but reminded me more of a pound cake version - yum. Abby did a stellar job of distributing the red, white, and blue sprinkles and then it was time for her to enjoy. The only problem was that, according to her, they weren't finished. Her cupcake needed one more thing - a candle.
I was in a cooperative mood, and it was the nation's birthday (and Bruiser's as well), so I pushed that candle into the center of her cupcake and lit it. I suggested that we sing to Bruiser, but she would have none of that, it would be "Happy birthday to Abby" or nothing at all. She clapped, blew out the candle, and enjoyed her treat - and we went about the rest of our day.
Which brings us to today. After dinner I suggested that Abby have a cupcake for dessert. She was all for that - if it had a candle. It seems that we've started a bit of a trend around here. In Abby's mind, every cupcake needs a candle. Luckily, we still had the blue candle from yesterday, so once again, I pushed it into the middle, lit it, and sang (you guessed it) "Happy birthday to Abby." How could I not, she was being so cute, and she was so excited about such a simple thing.
So here's a word of advice: If you ever have Abby over, and you are serving cupcakes, make sure to have a candle ready. I can guarantee her smile will be worth your efforts.
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Sounds like some great on the spot mothering to me!! Yes the smile would definately be worth the effort!
ReplyDeleteThanks! She does have a wonderful smile! ;-)
Deleteyou are an Awesome mom! thank you for writing this so we could enjoy reading, nodding our heads, and remembering some of those 'aha' moments with our GREAT kids! J still directs me in the kitchen after years of being a sou chef! i am waiting for the day when he'll do it on his own, but that will come! :) one step at a time...and we'll remember the candle! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you - and yes, a candle is ALWAYS a good thing to remember, after all, shouldn't every day be celebrated? :-)
DeleteHi, Elizabeth. I"m not sure if you remember me, but my husband {Derrick Hurst} and I {Carrie Hurst} went to Concordia with you and Jason. I came across your blog through a FB comment from I think Kate Giger. Anyway, I have been enamored by your writing and reflections every day about Abby. I love coming here everyday and reading what is happening in your lives. Thank you for sharing it with everyone!
ReplyDeleteOh Carrie, I certainly remember both you and Derrick. I hope you both are doing well! Thank you so much for your very kind words, and for taking the time to read the blog. I'm so glad you enjoy hearing about Abby. She is quite a character and an absolute joy. I hope she brightens your days. :-)
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